Lila Nyx


Location: United States , California, Oakland

Last Activity: 03/23/2024
Joined: 04/28/2022


Height: 5'3” - 160 cm

Weight: 120 lbs - 54.4 kg

Physique: Athletic

Years Of Experience: 5-15 years plus


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Pro domme with a wrestling fetish. Whether you want to have a semi-competitive tussle, a playful/sensual experience, or role play that I’m your mean older sister, badass high school field hockey player who will kick your ass, or an over-the-top WWE style brawl, I will bring a combination of strength, feistiness, somatic attunement, and joyful attitude to your ass whooping.

I also enjoy incorporating other forms of sensual domination, bondage, massage, and creative primal play into sessions.

I am also very skilled at virtual sessions.

I am best reached by email at [email protected] and you can also reach me by text at (510) 800-4008. I will not answer calls without a previous appointment.

I have an incall location in Oakland, CA, and travel often. Keep up to date on my travel dates, or fly me to you.

More information about my philosophy, credentials, and offerings, as well as testimonials that got lost in the website switchover, can be found on my website at

Session Deposit Policy

  • Deposit is Refundable if you cancel a minimum of 2 weeks prior to the session date.
  • Deposit is Refundable if I have to cancel and we are unable to reschedule.

Services Offered

Sessiongirl Services

  • Phone Chat
  • Semi-Competitive Wrestling
  • Submission Wrestling
  • Pin Wrestling
  • 2 on 1 Wrestling
  • Couples Wrestling
  • Semi-Competitive Boxing
  • Fantasy Boxing
  • Fantasy Kickboxing
  • Fantasy Catfighting
  • 2 or More on 1 Handicap Matches
  • Tag Team Matches
  • Armwrestling
  • Foxy
  • Female vs Female
  • Tickle Wrestling
  • Scissoring
  • Feats of Strength
  • Lift and Carry
  • Belly PunchingIn-Gym

Dominatrix Services

  • Bondage
  • Breath Play
  • CBT
  • Chastity Control
  • Corporal Punishment
  • Crossdressing
  • Financial Domination
  • Foot Fetish
  • Hosiery
  • Humiliation
  • Latex/Leather/PVC
  • Orgasm Denial
  • Role Play
  • Sensory Deprivation
  • Smoking
  • Spanking
  • Tickling
  • Trampling
  • Virtual Sessions
  • Wax Play
  • Whipping
  • Mommy Play
  • Others: Please email request


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9 months ago

This is a little late in coming, but I recently had the pleasure of what without a doubt one of the best sessions I’ve ever experienced with Lila.

Not only is she beautiful, (along with being one of the strongest woman I’ve ever sessioned with), but also took the time to understand what I was looking for in a session. Absolutely one of the best. Would absolutely go out of my way book with her again.

If she comes to your town and you don’t make the effort to book time with her, you’ll be missing out on a great experience.

1 year ago

Just finished a 2 hour session with Lila. The Best Session Ever! A lot of girls on this site are beautiful and have great bodies. Lila is both beautiful and has a great body, but the mental aspect of my session with her is what makes her my new favorite. We communicated a lot about the session ahead of time, and built up a lot of anticipation. She nailed every detail and delivered my dream session. The perfect combination of domme and session wrestler. Yes, she has some wrestling skills and truly likes to wrestle unlike some of the dommes on this site. Check her out. You won’t be disappointed.

1 year ago

I had a session with Lila today that was simply excellent. Booking with her was easy and I found her to be very responsive to my emails. As for the session itself, I think what really made it special was her great communication. She went out of her way to talk about my interests, set clear expectations on both sides, and make sure we were on the same page. Has she said, she was looking for that ven diagram overlap between her interests and mine to ensure a great time for both of us, and she did that. I’ll be thrilled to session again with Empress Lila the next time she’s in my area, and I highly recommend her to anyone considering a session.

1 year ago

Just had my second wrestling session with Lila Nyx, this time for 2 incredible hours. We originally met for 90 minutes earlier this year and knew i needed a rematch -When i saw she was back in the Boston area, i scheduled another session, which was easy to do – She is punctual, kind, strong, sensual and fun to talk to and wrestle with – she wants to understand the type of wrestling session you want and provides mastery in delivering a unique wrestling experience – I truly enjoyed creating a session that was respectful, engaging and memorable – lots of fun wrestling with Lila – can’t wait for our third match!

1 year ago

I just got back from my second session with the incredible Lila Nyx in the past two weeks. Once again I had a blast during my 90-minute session. Ms. Nyx is beautiful, intelligent and engaging. When you meet her it’s like talking to someone you’ve known all of your life. I’m so sad that she’s heading back out West and can’t wait until she returns to New England as I will absolutely book another session with her. I can’t stress enough to everyone if you get a chance and Ms. Nyx will be in your area book a session with her you will not regret it.


1 year ago

Lila is gorgeous, fit, kind, personable, accommodating. She is intuitive and adept at sensing what you’re looking for in a session. Her pics are great but she is somehow even more attractive in person. If you have the chance to book a session with her, don’t wait, do it! 5 stars!

1 year ago

I just got back from an incredible session with Empress Lila Nyx in Boston. This one of my favorite sessions I’ve had so far. Lila is absolutely beautiful both inside and out. She took the time before the session began to ask questions about what I was looking to get out of the session and to get to know me which I thought was really nice. I was impressed how much tickling she could take as she was very ticklish, but I never got her to say red So I had so much fun that I’m going to book with her again before she heads back out West. I highly encourage any of you thinking about trying a session to do it, it is so much fun and the ladies are outstanding people. I highly recommend booking Lila you will not be disappointed.

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Nick cardoso
Just ad a wonderful Session with this Beauty!! It was a Ballbusting, Scissor, beat down. I got my ass beat and I loved it. Irina definitely Packs a mean Punch that made my eyes roll back. She is professional and Very easy to set up a session with. I definitely will Session again with her in Future. Highly Recommend Irina if you want a Fun session with a kind hearted Person. See u soon for another beat down🤗🤗


I’ve had the joy of a couple of recent sessions with Irina. Having sessioned with dozens of ladies over the years, I do not hesitate to say that Irina is very special. Her pictures are not only accurate, to the extent you’re wondering if she’s managed to maintain that remarkable physique, but she is actually far more striking, beautiful, and sexy in person. Too many reviews say that, but I’dput cold hard cash down as a guarantee it’s true here.

Irina has a wisdom and confidence that comes with session experience, and it manifests as a real professional urge to figure out what makes you tick and scratch that itch. You’d hope this would be common in the session world, but frankly it isn’t. She’s uncommonly intelligent, thoughtful, responsive, communicative, and fun.

I had a couple fantasy/light semi-competitive sessions with Irina. In particular, I’m a knockout enthusiast and wanted her to focus on various choke-out techniques. I can’t recall a single woman who has refined techniques in real time and tweaked them so quickly to my feedback as Irina. We played around with rear naked chokes, headscissors, triangle chokes, and a few others. She was absolutely wonderful at every one. I loved that Irina showed a genuine enthusiasm throughout our time together that made me so comfortable and left me wanting more.

Folks, if you’re looking for a gorgeous woman who is an excellent communicator with awesome athleticism, an open mind, and a penchant for putting you to sleep — look no further.

For the record, I don’t want to pigeonhole Irina because it’s clear she is open to a variety of interests and I have zero doubt she would be equally enthusiastic in catering to respectful clients who clearly communicate their own itches that have nothing to do with knockouts. Mine happens to be KOs, which she is amazing at, but I know form multiple sessions she’d be equally amazing at others.

If you’re thinking about booking with Irina, stop. Book her immediately. Message me later and thank me.


In my search for a session wrestling pandemic substitute, I thought it might be interesting to try and arrange an old fashioned phone session with a woman. Maybe without the overpowering nature of a physical encounter and without the distraction of a video Zoom image, a phone session might lead me to discover new things about my fantasies and my kink. Well, now, after ten phone sessions with Miss Irina, my world has been permanently changed. Her bio showed her off as a feisty little beauty, but I had a sense she might be much more than that. I was right. Miss Irina is a true Alpha who draws on her ample intellect, sensuality, compassion, spirituality and hard ass dominance to take complete control of your imagination. Guys, you have no idea how exciting it is to admit your deepest darkest fantasies and have them scooped up, played with and celebrated by a brilliant, beautiful female. Admittedly, the plan here is that these phone sessions are actually a lead up to a future in-person session that will take our telephone relationship and bring it into the real world. Personally, I think my head might explode from anticipation prior to that but I guess we’ll find out.

There’s that moment of panic/excitement we’ve all had when we’re in the car on our way to a wrestling session with a woman for the first time — that trembling in your gut that’s either happiness or fear or both. I feel like that all the time now. Seriously, if you have any curiosity at all, I strongly suggest you contact this woman and set up a time to discover what you’re really capable of. You will not be disappointed.
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I apologize as this should of been done much earlier! I had a session with Irina back in January when she made her way up to Seattle. With this being my first session, I was super nervous as I made my way up to Capitol Hill. As soon as she came down to meet me, I couldn’t help but notice how incredibly beautiful this woman is. Irina is super nice and welcoming, and when we got back to her room we sat down and talked about what the session would look like before going in. Once we decided, I changed and we started. This woman is strong. She manhandled me, putting me in all sorts of pins and holds. I told her the grapevine pin is my favorite and she happily obliged, especially as she ended the session with that very same pin and counted down from 10. I melted as she was on top looking down smiling. Until we meet again!


I recently had a great session with Iriina. I had seen Irina’s pics here and thought, ‘wow’ she looks intense. She is super personable, friendly, very sexy, erotic and yes “intense”. She was on a layover in NY so we were finally able to meet and I was comfortable instantly. ‘A petite firecracker’. I wanted a mixture of roleplaying, combined with a sensual-type beatdown and lots of foot worshipping. She had a nice mixture of yoga flexibility, a ‘theatrical sexiness’ and pretty effective wrestling skills. I was impressed and excited by more than her pretty face, nice body and gorgeous feet. Look forward to another meeting.


This young lady comes highly recommended. She is a wrestling dynamo and very easy to talk to. She has an intuitive skill set and is willing to learn new moves and holds. Definitely one of my new favorites.


I’ve procrastinated long enough …

I recently had a wonderful 2-hour semi-competitive session with Miss Nyx during her N.C. trip. Not only was she a joy to interact and spend time with overall, but she was a blast to tussle with as well. She has a motor and was able to completely wear me out by the end of our match. I’m very much looking forward to the next time I get to hit the mats with Miss Nyx!


With respect to everyone I’ve sessioned with before, Irina is my new favorite! She was very accommodating with my requests and patient with issues on my end in regards to scheduling.

Even though I had a strength advantage — I outweigh her by about 50 lbs. — she overcame it with better technique. She tapped me more times than I was able to tap her during semi-competitive wrestling. Whenever I was able to beat her in any of the activities we did, she was a great sport about it.

I will also concur with a previous reviewer that as great as she looks in her pictures here, she looks even prettier in person and she has an amazing bikini body.

I’m so glad Irina is in the SF Bay Area. Don’t hesitate to book her when you can.


Agree totally with Danfredo. Intoxicatingly beautiful, brilliant, and very intuitive. Lithe, and strong -with eyes that hypnotize. Very best there is!


DM Patrick
Something told me when I saw Irina’s plans to visit Boston I needed to meet her. I am so very thankful for that decision.

My experience with Irina was powerful and fulfilling. We established a role play that she played perfectly, using it to demonstrate her physical and psychological power over me. First I could not escape her scissors; soon I was a sensual captive of both her mind and body. Our session was powerfully erotic and at moments transcendent.

Our session flowed perfectly from sensual wrestling to muscle worship, never letting me question or forget who was in control. I’ve explored wrestling sessions for years but my experience with Irina was like no other.


I had the pleasure of meeting Irina during her recent East coast trip. As a sessioner, she is intuitive, sensual, intense and playful. She posseses an innate sense of knowing exactly what you want; and if she is not sure she will ask and accommodate to perfection. And as a person, should you have the wonderful luck of having time to hang with her, you will find her engaging, interesting, personable and brilliant. Irina is a gem. After thirty years of sessioning, I can safely say I have met no one better.


My session with Irina during her recent northeast trip was an experience I will not soon forget. She is intuitive, sexy, fun, and playful… yet intense at the same time. She has an amazing innate ability to know exactly what you want, and whatever she thinks she may not know, she will ask, and happily, and skillfully deliver. As a sessioner, she is spot-on. And as a person, if you should have the crazy luck of being able to hang with her and share some conversation, she is engaging, interesting, kind, warm, and absolutely brilliant. Miss Irina Nyx is the whole package. How about this to convince you: after thirty years of sessioning, she is the best I have ever had.


I had a session with miss nyx and it was a great experience. She was good with her email responses to set up the session. From her email responses she had a very joyful and playful nature, which showed in our session. In addition to her personality, her pics on this site (as good as it is) does not compare to her in person as she is amazing with beautiful mesmerizing eyes and an awesome bikini body. Would highly recommend.